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            <title>The beginning of a new era</title>
            <description><![CDATA[We decided to put Maddie in Pre-K this year.&nbsp; It was a last minute decision, as we'd always said we'd keep her home until kindergarten.&nbsp; However, she's reading like a maniac (Berenstain Bears, anyone?) and we just feel like she's ready for it and would really thrive on the challenge.&nbsp; So we decided to enroll her.&nbsp; <br /><br />The actual process of finding a preschool with an opening at the last minute (we started in May when most preschools fill up their rosters in January) is a story for another day, but now Maddie is enrolled and will be starting school in a little less than two weeks.&nbsp; <br /><br />While I'm incredibly excited for her -- I don't doubt she's going to love it --&nbsp; my Mommy Guilt is starting to kick in.&nbsp; A few people I've told have commented, "But I thought you guys were going to wait until kindergarten."&nbsp; True, but we changed our minds.&nbsp; Am I doing the right thing?&nbsp; I ask myself almost daily.&nbsp; One of the main reasons Bill and I decided to wait with both kids is that we want them to learn as much from home as possible before they start school.&nbsp; They'll have at least 12 years of mandated schooling, so having time at home to play and just be a kid was crucial to us.&nbsp; In addition, we know how difficult things can get in a full classroom, so we wanted to make sure she learned the things that might not be covered in a classroom full of children:&nbsp; manners, behavior, kindness to others, etc.&nbsp;&nbsp; Honestly, she'll only be gone four days a week, from 9am - noon, which really isn't a lot, but still...<br /><br />Our last minute decision means that we had to go with the private preschool route.&nbsp; Not that it's a problem.&nbsp; It's a great school and definitely worth the cost (which has put a little dent in our budge) but I'm starting to get perturbed by how many extra costs and activities are required.&nbsp; We already had a mandatory meeting with the administration for paperwork, etc.&nbsp; Tonight we have a new parent orientation.&nbsp; Next week is a school picnic as well as a meet &amp; greet with the teacher.&nbsp; In addition, the school supply list was nearly a whole page long, and required going to three different stores to get the very specific items.&nbsp; Oh, and the "school improvement fee" in addition to it all.<br /><br />I hate to complain, but I'm really just starting to feel overwhelmed by it all.&nbsp;&nbsp; Maybe I was spoiled all these years because I never had to deal with this stuff.&nbsp; While everyone around me was getting supplies and such, the girls and I just did our normal day-to-day stuff, playing in the park, or with Barbies, etc.&nbsp; <br /><br />This whole thing is big because it not only means a change to our schedule, but also to our general family dynamic as well.&nbsp; My kids usually sleep until 9am, but now Maddie will have to be at school at 8:50 sharp.&nbsp; That will be an adjustment, but it's probably a good thing.&nbsp;&nbsp; Now we'll actually be on the same schedule as most of my fellow moms, so playdates will be a little more convenient.&nbsp; <br /><br />A very good plus to all of this is that I will have my mornings free to spend with Josie alone.&nbsp; She has never gotten much one on one attention, or much attention at all, in the shadow of her very outgoing and exuberant older sister.&nbsp; It will be really interesting to see how she thrives with her Mommy-Josie time.<br /><br />&nbsp; <br /> ]]></description>
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            <title>Yes!  Ok, probably.  Maybe.  We&apos;ll see.</title>
            <description><![CDATA[I'm thinking of starting up this blog again.&nbsp; Maybe.&nbsp; Probably.  For all intents and purposes, yes.&nbsp; <br /><br />

I took an extended leave of absence these past 4 months for family visits, friend visits, vacations... and time to ponder the narcissism of this whole blog thing.&nbsp; I was having conflicting thoughts about the whole "me" culture and how it has been exploited to the point of nonsense.&nbsp; But I'm okay with that now, am actually comfortable with it.&nbsp; Facebook and status updates have made me realize just how much I missed blogging, and how much I do actually need to focus on myself once in a while.<br /><br />

And don't think I forgot about the redesign.  I'm working on it.  Still.  I have so many ideas, so much creative energy, but neither the talent or time to implement them all.  Needless to say, the chance to design something new was one of the first reasons I decided to keep writing on Knee Deep in Life.  I'm such a nerd.

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            <title>Frustration in a can</title>
            <description><![CDATA[If you've visited this site in the last couple of days, you've probably noticed some strangeness going on.&nbsp; <i>Then again, maybe no one has visited and I needn't worry.</i> <br /><br />I'm in the middle of a site redesign that's been on my to-do list for the past 18 months.&nbsp; Through trial and error, I'm moving toward my goal, but not without craziness (<i>and frustration!)</i> in the process.&nbsp; I haven't been to bed earlier than 3am for the past 4 days, but that's because I don't even attempt to work on it during the day with the girls.&nbsp; I've learned my lesson already when it comes to that.&nbsp; <br /><br />And yes, this is a template and not my final design...<br /> ]]></description>
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            <title>April Fool&apos;s Day</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Check out the April Fool's Day prank going on at <a href="http://www.tbs.com/">TBS.com</a>

<em>
Yes, this is a horrible, shameless plug for my husband.</em>]]></description>
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            <title>Yes, you can come and repair our house for free.</title>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>Well, I know I haven't posted much lately.  There are really two reasons for that.  First, I've been a little apathetic about writing posts.  I'm already writing ones for our family blog, and by the time I get to this one, I just don't have the steam anymore.  And second, we've been a little busy...</p>

<p>A few weeks ago, Bill and I were notified that we'd made it through the final level of approval to be featured on the show <a href="http://www.hgtv.com/hgtv/shows_hdts/">Designed to Sell</a>.  Our show will be shot in December (exact date TBD), and will probably air in 2009.</p>

<p>We got into this thanks to a friend from my mom's group.  Her realtor just started working with the show, and had mentioned that she needed homes in the Atlanta area to submit to the producers.  My friend mentioned ours.  We've told people of our plans to move in 2009, before Maddie begins school in the Fall, so my friend thought the timing and our house would work out well for the show.  She hooked us up with the realtor, to whom I submitted pictures of our family and of the house.  The realtor then submitted these to the producers, who eventually called us for an interview.  The interview happened in early February.  Bill was able to leave work for a few hours so we could sit down and talk to the producer of the show.</p>

<p>After the interview, we were fairly confident we were NOT going to get picked.  The producer let us know several times that they were looking for diversity--both in the couples and in the houses.  And Bill and I are hardly examples of diversity.  We're as white middle class as you can get.  Our house isn't all that unique, either.  It's a three-bedroom, two-bath ranch with EXACTLY the same exterior and floorplan as almost all of the homes in our neighborhood.  Add in the fact that the girls wouldn't leave us (or this poor producer) alone, and I figured we'd never hear from her again.  I was wrong.</p>

<p>It's exciting to get chosen for the show, but we're mostly excited because the timing will work out so well.  At first, Bill wasn't so happy that I'd submitted us.  He thought we'd be obligated to sell as soon as they did the makeover, and that it would probably happen this Spring.  And we just aren't ready to sell (or buy a new house) right now.  But we can be much more ready by December.  We also found out there's no obligation, just opportunity.  Homes are obviously made more sellable by the makeover, and also by the fact that they have an open house as part of the show.  This open house will get more walk-throughs thanks to the fact that these people (and the house) will be on TV.  But if it doesn't sell, even after all of that, it's no problem.  The producers shoot two different endings while they have us.  One states that the homeowners quickly sold the house, while the other optimistically states that it's still on the market, but with renewed interest.  So their bases are covered, either way.  And our obligation to them ends as soon as the show's in the can.</p>

<p>The way the show works is that they'll choose three rooms to renovate, with an eye on doing the most work for the least money and raising the value of the house as much as possible.  They've hinted that they may do our master bedroom, a bathroom and our sun porch, but that may all change once the designers visit.  All of the work they do will be free to us, but we will be responsible to pay taxes on the total value of the job.  They usually end up claiming the work to be worth $5000-$6000, which is what we'd owe taxes on, but the actual value is worth much more since they get all supplies at cost and don't charge for labor at all.  And even paying taxes on that won't be such a big deal.  After all, we were already planning to use our 2009 tax check almost exclusively for home repairs.  So if we get those same repairs cheaper and better, and pay from the same source, it all works out.</p>

<p>Here's how the timeline for the shoot will work:  The crew will pay us a visit on a Monday, a week before the shoot begins.  At that time, the designers will take pictures and measurements and will decide exactly which spaces they can help.  They'll then get the rest of that week to plan, purchase and make arrangements, while we're given some homework to do.  The homework may involve moving furniture, taking things off walls, cleaning, etc.  Basically getting ready for the work and camera crews to come in.  Then, on the next Tuesday, the team returns to the house and begins working/filming.  We were told that we won't be very involved with the actual work because while the pros are doing their thing, we'll be shooting our interviews and the B-roll footage that will be used throughout the show.  On Friday, the open house will take place, and the whole thing will be over.  One week for a three-room makeover and a full episode of the show.</p>

<p>We've been told that we can go ahead and sleep at the house every night during the production, even if they do our bedroom.  But we've also been told that we'd need to put the dog somewhere else and also find a sitter for the kids for every day after they shoot the initial intro.  So we're hoping my mom and sister can take both the kids and dog for the week.  Bill will probably still work much of the week--they only need us in short bursts every now and then--and I'll probably end up hanging out at Barnes & Noble quite a bit.  But we want to make sure that when they do need us, we're not frantically trying to find someone to watch Maddie and Josie.</p>

<p>Anyway, that's just a little bit of what's been keeping me busy.  I'll post more information once we have a time and date (they said they'll probably contact us again in September.)  Until then, feel free to check out HGTV's <a href="http://www.hgtv.com/hgtv/shows_hdts/">site for the show</a>, and to watch a few episodes.  </p>]]></description>
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            <title>Ode to the Starbucks drive-thru</title>
            <description><![CDATA[(via <a href="http://blogs.parentcenter.babycenter.com/momformation/2008/02/29/ode-to-the-starbucks-drive-thru/">MOMformation</a>)

Starbucks
*To the tune of Only You by the Platters*

Only you can make this world seem right.
Only you can wake me from a sleepless night.
Only you and you alone
can accept me like you do,
with my ragged sweats
and one tennis shoe.

Only you can see my SUV
filled with trash and toys and stale pee-pee.
But when you open that window
and give me that steaming coffee
you're my dream come true.
My one and only you.

Only you can smile at the kids in my backseat.
With one glance I must admit defeat.
With their screaming and streaming tears,
you'd think I'd be ordering beers.
But you're my dream come true.
My one and only you.]]></description>
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            <title>I&apos;m proud of myself.  Aren&apos;t you?</title>
            <description><![CDATA[In the spirit of Loralee's <a href="http://loraleeslooneytunes.com/2008/02/11/this-just-in-hell-has-frozen-over/">Diet Coke abstinence</a>, I have to remark that I have almost completely dropped my Coke (-a-Cola) habit of many years.  I haven't had one since I first got sick a few weeks ago.  At that time I couldn't keep anything down, much less soda, so I didn't have a choice there.  After that, it just seemed like I was on a roll and should keep it up.  I'd think about having one, about that swoosh fizz sound when you first open a can, the burning carbonation of that first sip... anyway, I just didn't want to start up again.  Being forced to quit for a while got me started and since I have no willpower anyway, it seemed like a good idea to use that as my starting point.  

Okay, I did break down earlier this week.  I'd had a really really really stressful day and suddenly Coke popped into my mind and I could not get it out.  So I made an emergency stop at the gas station and got one.  Swoosh.  Fizz.  Gulp.  

And nothing.  First sip was kind of nice, with the carbonation and all, but every subsequent sip was just too icky sweet.  I can't believe I'm writing this, but I ended up putting the thing in my fridge (just in case I would want it later) and haven't really bothered it.  Today I threw it out.  I can't believe it, but I think I may have just lost my taste for Coke.  <em>Okay, I'm not going that far</em>, but at least it won't be my breakfast and lunch anymore.    Also, and this is another reason I'm happy to be rid of it, I feel less bloated.  My pants are fitting a little bit better.  And my 4pm headaches are all but gone.  (Though, oddly enough, I did get a horrible one right after drinking those sips the other day.)

So, Loralee, if you're reading this, I'll do my best to stay on the wagon if you will.]]></description>
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            <title>Add this to &quot;The Book of Things Only Alecia Would Do&quot;</title>
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I hit myself in the head with a hammer.  


Yes, you read that correctly.  As if the past few weeks of illness weren't enough, last week I went and cut a small, but very deep, gash in the side of my nose.  I'm incredibly lucky that I didn't get my eye.  

How did I do it?  Well, this takes extreme talent.  I was removing a nail from the wall.  A nail that was about 3 feet above my head.  A nail stuck not only in drywall, but also a little in the brick behind it.  A nail that required extreme strength and pressure on the hammer to remove.  Well, of course the nail finally came out, and so did the hammer... with a lot of force.  The hammer hit me, I fell backwards off the futon (which I was using as my ladder - <em>brilliant idea</em>) and things went black for about 3 seconds.  Then I sat up, grabbed my nose (which hurt like hell) and checked to see that it wasn't broken.  It wasn't, but I pulled my hands away and saw blood everywhere.  This little gash in my nose took a lot of effort to stop bleeding.  It's pretty deep, too, but eventually I got the bleeding to stop so I assume I didn't need stitches.

It's been almost two weeks now and I still have a cut there.  I'm pretty sure there's going to be a scar.  Luckily, and oddly, it didn't bruise at all.  I fully expected to have a black eye or bruised nose a couple of days later.  Instead, the bridge of my nose is just still really sore.  

Yep, I'm a <em>genius</em>.  Any wonderfully dumb injury stories you want to share?]]></description>
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            <title>Welcome to my world.  Won&apos;t you come on in?</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Maddie was awake all last night coughing her poor little heart out.  It's the same cough I had (<em>and unfortunately still have -- I'm told having it last at least 3-4 weeks isn't uncommon,</em>) where you cough so much you can barely catch your breath.  

Josie woke up this morning complaining of a sore throat and then promptly threw up on me.  She's lying here next to me surrounded by towels with a little bucket within reach.

It looks like both girls have what I have/did have.  Unfortunately, in my case, it was both the sinus infection/bronchitis thing and the stomach flu at the same time.  According to our pediatrician, both are going around right now.  I'm really hoping the girls can keep up their routine of being complete opposites of one another, and that neither will get what the other one has.  Keep your fingers crossed for me.

Between all the TV they watched while I was sick, plus all the TV they'll be watching the next couple of days, I'm sure their little brains will be fried.  
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And don't even bother telling me about alternatives to TV-watching while they're sick.  When your baby throws up and immediately asks for "Do-wa the Explo-wa" before the vomit has even been wiped from her face... well, you just give her what she wants.</em>]]></description>
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            <title>WE CAN</title>
            <description><![CDATA[I hate politics.  Vehemently.  I avoid discussions and any info about it at all costs.  I have friends who love it, who thrive on the debate and play between candidates at this time of year.  I can't stand it.  

I've been so disgusted with our government, not only for the past two terms, but long before then.  I've dreamed of being an expatriate.  America seems like a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't wanna live there.  

Until this year.  For the first time in my life I feel like our country truly has the opportunity to change for the better, to become the place it used to be.  I don't feel overwhelmingly confident in any of the candidates so far, but I do see a glimmer of hope in Obama and it makes me feel like we could be going in a good direction.  

I'm actually excited about the upcoming election.  I'm looking forward to voting.  It will be the first time I've done that.  I'm not proud to say that I am 30 years old and have never used my voting rights as a citizen of the United States.  This year, I plan to do so.  

Some of you might consider the following video a little too sweet for your taste, and in some ways I agree.  Yet I can't deny that I watched it for the first time last night and got tears in my eyes.  I actually cried over politics -- and not in a bad way.  Regardless of your political leanings, you have to admit that it's well produced and does make your heart beat a little faster in excitement.  

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            <title>Self-Portrait Challenge:  Blue</title>
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<strong>Baby Blue.</strong>

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            <title>Today is the worst day of the year</title>
            <description><![CDATA[...at least according to <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6847012/">this</a>.]]></description>
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            <title>Ugh</title>
            <description><![CDATA[I seem to have caught the same suckety-suck-suckedness that plagued <a href="http://loraleeslooneytunes.com/">Loralee</a> and <a href="http://www.baby-faith.com/">Holli</a> a few weeks ago.  Oh, you poor dears.  I had no idea.  I feel like absolute and utter <strong>crap</strong>.  (Should that be capitalized, because it feels like it should be.)  Last night there were actually times that I just wanted to cry because my ears and throat and chest hurt so bad.  It's been a long time since I felt that way.  

The good thing is that I'm heading out to my mom's this weekend.  I'm hoping she and my sister will be more than happy to take care of the girls while I pass out in the guest bedroom.  The two-hour drive there will suck, but it will be worth it to have my Mommy take care of <em>me</em>.  (OMG, did I just write that?  I do feel awful.  I don't think I ever called her "Mommy" when I was a kid.)

Oh, and in case you're wondering, I'm sure Bill would be more than obliging to help, but he's headed to LA this weekend to work the red carpet at the SAG Awards.  Uh huh.  How cool is that?  You probably won't see him since he'll be doing more work behind the scenes, but I've Tivo'd everything related to SAG anyway.  He also gets the chance to attend the party afterwards.  Yes, I'm sending him with a list of autographs to get.  Anyone I should add to the list?

PS.  Join me next week when I recount how my kids have now caught whatever sickness is going around and Josie spends most of her 3-year birthday party lying on the couch watching "My Little Pony" movies.  Hurrah!  Seriously, though, is there anything I can do to help prevent them getting sick?]]></description>
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            <title>I don&apos;t want to blow you up</title>
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I want this coloring book for my kids.  I want it for your kids.  I want it for every damn person that keeps sending me idiotic emails about how every single person they pass on the street with a "foreign sounding" name is trying to kill them, about how Barack Obama is secretly trying to make all Americans convert to Islam, about how I am a horrible and evil person (and probably a terrorist) because I don't forward this email to everyone else I know.

Do I sound upset?  Because I am.  I am so incredibly sick of these types of emails.  It's bad enough to know that this type of rationale runs rampant today, but to have it directly put in your path just makes me want to throw up.  Even worse is that I keep getting these things sent to me by friends and family.  

The first one I got made me so upset that I almost started crying. That's how deeply it affected me.  It was an email talking about the supposed tenets of Islam, all of which were completely untrue.  I'm no expert on religions, but even I knew that most of it was bullshit.  There's no way I could sit back and let these false truths be passed on.  In response, I very nicely replied to the email with information I cut and pasted directly from Belief.net regarding Islam.  I made sure to counter each false point with a true one.  Again, I did it as nicely as I could, with the idea in mind that I wanted to educate.  I probably wouldn't change the person's overall beliefs, but that wasn't my goal.  If there was anything I wanted to accomplish, it was that this person would know at least one nugget of <em>truth</em> about what they so desperately hated.

Since then, I have gotten even more emails.  Not from the same person, but others.  You would think that my reaction by now would be less, but that's not the case.  Each one is just more upsetting.  From the stupid Photoshopped pictures to the completely forehead-slapping original song about "Keepin' them terrorists out of America."  I was told on more than one occasion that I shouldn't get upset.  What was the point?  What would change if I sent a response or a correction of the facts?  

The answer is that I don't know.  The fact that I'm not forwarding the stupid email does not mean that it's not getting forwarded by thousands of other people that very same day.  But, if in my response one single person actually has a more open view about things, then that's enough, right?  

Maybe this bothers me more now because I'm a parent.  I can't watch the news anymore.  It is incomprehensible to me that I might be raising my kids in a world that still thinks this way.  More importantly, in a country as big and influential as ours.  

I want to crawl in a corner and cover my eyes.  I want to be able to open them and see that there really is rational thought in the world, that such stupidity doesn't exist, that our country isn't being led in the name of such grossly false truths.  

I don't claim to be infallible myself, and there's no way this caucasian Midwestern girl is going to claim to have experienced any kind of racial or cultural prejudice, but I do have a brain and a heart and I refuse to stand by and let my kids adopt any of these thoughts about another human being.

I'll get off my soapbox now.]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 03:20:23 -0500</pubDate>
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